Thursday, December 14, 2006

The Very Attractive Women Are Approached All The Time

I’m going to remind you of something that I talked
about earlier in this book: Most attractive women are
approached in one way or another all the time by men.
I was watching one of Chris Rock’s stand up routines
recently; Chris was telling the women in the audience
that anytime a man is being nice, it’s because he’s
offering sex (or ‘dick’ as he put it).
So if a guy says, “Wow, you look great!”, what he
really means is, “Wow, you really look great, would you
like some dick?”
And remember that ‘desirable’ women including rich
women, beautiful women, and famous women, are used
to being treated like queens. (It’s really no fault of theirs;
even very handsome men are notorious for acting
arrogant. It’s part of being human. We can all become
spoiled easily if the right combination of circumstances
arises. By the way, it’s good to keep a “You’re spoiled,
and I don’t really blame you for it... you were just lucky
to be born beautiful and have everyone kiss your ass”
Being spoiled, these women act bratty to get their
way. However, the ass kissing and always getting their
way also has another effect. Since they are so used to
being courted and having a man kiss their ass, when you
show up, act funny and charming, and don’t play into any
of their games (make fun of them, do the pretend ass-
kisser imitation, tell them that they want you, tease
them, don’t answer ANY of their questions about job, car,
home, social life, where you go, etc. and even label all of
those questions as, “Did you get a list of these questions
like all the other shallow women around here?” etc.) it
often has the effect of them thinking, “Wow, this is sure
DIFFERENT”, which gets their attention. The humor and
arrogance (arrogance based on self-knowing, not on
outer success) keeps their attention.
I think that it’s all about interrupting the current train
of thought with some type of DIFFERENT AND
INTERESTING behavior. You can use tricks, props, or
whatever, but you have to interrupt the woman and first
get her attention... then you can get to the good part of
doing the things that give her the FEELINGS that she
wants and playing the part of the MAN that her
unconscious wants.
Many experts talk of establishing rapport, acting like
them, etc. initially... I’ve found that breaking rapport
usually works better for me. (Rapport is the concept of
breathing, moving, and talking like another person so
they feel a connection with you.)
But it’s a special kind of breaking rapport that I
practice. I break rapport in a funny and charming way,
which actually ASSUMES rapport from the beginning. (I
insult women that I don’t know in a playful way all the
time. Her only real choices with which to respond
internally and externally are, “This guy is a jerk - I’m
outta here” or “You’ve got some balls - but you’re damn
funny - and for some reason, I feel like I know you...”)
When you point out a woman’s quirks or insecurities
in a way that makes her laugh, you do so many positive
things at once. She can’t deny that the things you’re
saying are true, BECAUSE SHE’S LAUGHING. And she
can’t really hate you too much, because it’s kind of fun.

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