Thursday, December 14, 2006

The Underlying Motives

I think that it’s important to look at the differences
between men and women from an objective perspective.
Remember that just about every thought and
behavior that a woman has, no matter how little sense it
may make to you, has some positive intention behind it.
Drama is often to get attention. Jealousy is often a way of
protecting a relationship. Games are often used to make
sure that a man is serious and willing to invest energy.
So as you work to become more successful with
women, remember not to take things personally. Don’t
get discouraged if you encounter games, drama, and
things that you don’t understand. It’s all part of the
I believe that underneath it all, men are usually trying
to find women who will give them sex, and women are
usually trying to find men who will give them loyalty and
commitment. This has evolved over many millions of
years, and these goals contain an obvious conflict of
So just realize this conflict exists, and as you learn,
remember to take it into consideration.
And, of course, don’t take any of it personally. Men
have been dealing with all of these same issues for a
long, long time.

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